To all incredible parents, grandparents, guardians, and teachers!
Adults teaching table manners is genuinely one of the most beautiful gifts we can give our
children. It’s about so much more than forks, napkins, and passing the ketchup. It’s about raising
kind, thoughtful little people who make the world a brighter place. So, make it fun, keep it light,
and be patient with yourself and them.
Today and always, manners matter, and even more importantly are the amazing people who teach
them! That’s why I wrote, A Thank-You Celebration!, to celebrate you! It’s a fun story
celebrating the community of people helping with our loved ones!
- 1) Place all devices away from the table: Time flies faster than we ever imagined, so enjoy your little ones without cellphones, iPads, etc. Make it a fun family rule and share it with everyone.
- 2) Have fun, savor these moments: Laugh together at the table, tell silly stories, and cherish these meals as memories in the making.
- 3) Be patient, loving, kind, and repetitive: Manners aren’t learned in a day. They grow little by little.
- 4) Practice sitting tall at the table: Good posture not only makes you feel confident, but it also helps others around you feel proud too!
- 5) Celebrate the wins: When your child waits patiently for everyone to be served before eating, give them a compliment or a gentle high-five. Find reasons to compliment.
- 6) Teach one or two lessons at a time: Little minds absorb best in small doses. Focus on “Please and Thank You” today, and maybe, using napkins tomorrow.
- 7) Explain “Why”: Share with them why we chew with our mouths closed. Children love to understand the why, and are more likely to follow the table manners.
- 8) Repetition Work: Practice “Please” when passing the mashed potatoes, and then say, “Thank you!” Encourage their excellent manners!
- 9) Reward System: Use a reward, such as a Star System, displaying all the stars or stickers they earned using their table manners each day.
- 10) The Hug: At the end of the day, when all is through, give a loving hug to them and you!
Thank you for taking the time to read my blog post on How to Teach Table Manners. With
much love, I share my first children’s book, A Thank-You Celebration, with you and your little
ones. I wish you all a safe and happy day!
Diane Russell, Children’s Book Author
www.wisechoicekidsclub.com (Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Google Play, iTunes & Kindle)
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