We all want to be kind; however, between work, grocery errands, the kids’ schedules, and
everything else on your to-do list, it can feel like there’s no time left for random acts of kindness.
The good news is that it takes minimal time, will leave a positive ripple effect, and people,
including our little ones, will reap the rewards.
Here are a few crumbs of encouragement to spread kindness, even if your schedule is packed.
1. Start Small
Kindness doesn’t have to be a grand, thought-out gesture. Sometimes the simplest things make a
significant difference. For instance:
– Saying “yes” to something small, like reading one more book before bedtime.
– Holding the door open for the person behind you.
– Complimenting a co-worker or your child in front of others.
It takes only a few minutes, but it usually leaves a positive ripple effect, and the little one’s love
feeling and seeing the impact, too!
2. Make Kindness Part of Your Routine
Busy people love efficiency, so here’s the secret: kindness can fit right into your everyday
schedule.
– Taking a walk in your neighborhood, say “hi” to your neighbor as you pass.
– When shopping for groceries, say, “excuse me” to the person you’re passing.
– At a stop sign, smile and wave to let the other driver go first.
Once you start weaving these little acts of kindness into things you already do, it becomes a
natural habit. It will also make you feel good, along with our little ones, who will emulate you.
3. Use Your Phone for Good
We spend a lot of time on our phones, so why not use them to spread kindness?
– Send a quick “thank you” text to a friend or relative.
– Have your child send a ‘thinking of you’ video to a favorite Aunt.
– Share a photo with Grandma or Grandpa celebrating their grandchild’s special moment.
Kindness doesn’t have to be face-to-face to be powerful.
4. Teach by Example
Whether you have children, coworkers, or just a curious neighbor, kindness is contagious. When
you model it, people notice.
Imagine this: you’re rushing through the grocery store, and you stop letting someone with just
two items go ahead. Your child sees that and learns that kindness matters, even when you’re
busy. That moment becomes a tiny kindness lesson without a lecture needed.
5. Make it Fun
This is my favorite crumb! Keep kindness light and playful.
– Turn it into a game: “How many people can I compliment today?”
– Start a kindness jar at home, write down good deeds, and read them later.
– Celebrate the kindness jar weekly.
– Challenge your children or friends to do one nice thing each day and share the stories at
the table.
Kindness should feel good and make you smile both inside and out.
6. Be Kind to Yourself Too
This one’s easy to forget when life is busy. Encouraging kindness starts with you, and that
includes giving yourself grace and removing any guilt!
Take a deep breath, say no when you need to, and remind yourself to change any negative
recordings. There’s no room for guilt. A content and happy you is much better at spreading
kindness.
7. Remember: It All Adds Up
You might think your small acts don’t matter, but they do. The quick text, the compliment, the
door you held open, they all add up.
Kindness is like confetti, sprinkle a little here and there, and soon it’s everywhere.
Final Thoughts
Encouraging kindness consists of small, doable moments that brighten someone’s day and yours.
So, the next time you’re rushing through your day, look for one small opportunity to be kind.
Chances are, it’ll take less than a minute, and it could make someone smile. Your day will be
made, and it will be a beautiful example for the loved ones in your life.
Thank you for taking the time to read my latest blog post. Your “kind” support is always
appreciated.
Diane Russell, Children’s Book Author
www.wisechoicekidsclub.com (Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Google Play, iTunes & Kindle)
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