Since we know that learning table manners is easier with a sprinkle of fun, a scoop of patience,
and plenty of sweet compliments, here is a list of manners for children ages three to nine.
Depending on their age, small lessons go a long way. Please don’t forget to put away all
cellphones, and iPads to enjoy your sweet dinner together!
Here are a few sweet crumbs of wisdom on manners used at the table:
- 1) Wash hands before eating
- 2) Help set the table (depending on age)
- 3) Place a napkin on little laps
- 4) Wait until everyone has their food before beginning to eat
- 5) Instead of reaching across the table, say, “Please pass the __,” and remember to say,
- “Thank you!”
- 6) Talk when your mouth is empty.
- 7) Chew, chew, chew (no rushing or gobbling)
- 8) Use utensils correctly (fork, spoon, and later a knife with guidance)
- 9) Have them use a napkin to wipe mouth and hands.
- 10) Thank the Chef(s) for taking time to make the delicious meal
- 11) Say, “Excuse me,” before leaving the table.
Thank you for taking the time to read today’s blog post, Table Manners for Children. With much love, I share my first children’s book, A Thank-You Celebration, with you and your little ones. I hope that you enjoy the message of love, joy, kindness, and gratitude!
Diane Russell, Children’s Book Author
www.wisechoicekidsclub.com (Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Google Play, iTunes & Kindle)
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